In the fantastic process of applying for a mortgage we find out a small little glitch that may throw the whole thing off. What’s that you ask? Apparently yours truly had a recent late payment on a credit card still listed in my maiden name. In the end it was chalked up to a “bank error”, thank you to all the kind representatives that I shed many tears to these past few days. However it definitely took the wind out of our sails for a moment. And we are still not out of the storm. I am not going to get excited about said “dream house” until I am actually in it.
That being said…one of the many conversations/me being scolded about being irresponsible ended with my husband saying:
Change all your cards, change your drivers license, change your social security card, change everything. You are no longer Danielle Martin. You are Danielle Gambino. You are mine and I will not allow these mistakes to happen. From now on you don’t know Danielle Martin. You are to move forward as my wife in your new name. No questions asked.
I have to admit I was taken back. My husband and I go at it of course, but this was new. Having him speak to me like that kind of threw me. And I have to admit reminded me quite alot of Mr. Christian Grey. You know you read the books. Don’t be modest. Just as I started to enjoy the lecture…
Well we had to evacuate the room.
You can figure out why.
I don’t believe Mr. Gray ever did that. Daydream halted.