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42 HURRICANE TIPS AND HACKS!

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Hey all!  With hurricane Irma quickly approaching the state of Florida it is obvious that panic is setting in.  People are choosing to drive as far away as they can, others choosing to stay where they are, and then a number of people I have spoke with are really unsure as to what the best choice is.  There are so many variables that come along with Mother Nature and while it is still too early to tell where Irma will make her landfall it is quite obvious that many people in Florida will feel some effects from the storm.

Whether you are choosing to stay or go I have compiled a list of the most helpful tips and tricks to prepare for a storm and its aftermath.

1.) Get gas.  Get gas in the car, gas up any boats, fill gas tanks.  Do this as soon as you hear of a potential storm to avoid long lines, shortages and price increases.

2.) Buy bottled water.   Plan for 1 gallon of water per person per day.

3.) Stock up on batteries.  You will need them for flash lights and radios.

4.) Check propane tank for BBQ.  You will likely be grilling all your food during a power outage.

5.) Keep up on laundry.  There would be nothing worse then not having power for 10 days if you were already behind on the laundry.

6.) Gather all important documents and place in a waterproof bag or case.  In areas prone to flooding you can use your dishwasher as a waterproof storage container.  Documents include: Birth certificates, SS cards, passports, drivers licenses, medical records, etc.

7.) Trim trees.  This can help limbs from falling on homes and going through windows.

8.) Take down baby pool gate.  Do this at the last moment.

9.) Bring in all outside furniture, hoses, BBQs, toys.  Many people will say that they do not care if it gets damaged but the real issue is items becoming airborne and possibly breaking and flying through windows.

10.) Check and clean rain gutters.

11.) Create a physical contact list.  It is inevitable that cell phones will die and you do not want to be without someone’s phone number in case you need to reach them.  Write them down and place the list with the important papers.

12.) Fill all medications.

13.) Stock up on food items such as peanut butter, bread, canned soups, canned tuna, beans, oatmeal, nuts, canned fruit, etc.

14.) In case of a power outage unplug all electronics.  When the power is restored any electronics that are plugged in can have a power surge and damage them.

15.) Fill bathtub/s with water.  This will be used for washing and flushing toilets in the event the water gets shut off.

16.) Open fridge/freezer as little as possible.  The more often it is open the faster the items will lose their temperature/defrost.

17.) Don’t forget your pets!  Make sure you have enough food and medications for your animals.

18.) Empty ice maker and bag the ice days prior so you will have bags of ice ready to go.

19.) Days before the storm hits fill tupperware with water.  Freeze some and keep some in the fridge.  Please note it can take 72 hours for a tupperware of water to freeze so plan accordingly.

20.) 1 drop of bleach for every gallon of water makes it safe for drinking in an emergency.

21.) Wash out and fill all empty containers and bottles with drinking water before the storm hits.

22.) Baby wipes can be used to personal cleansing if showers are not possible.

23.) Pack a first aide kit.  Bandaids, neosporin, tylenol, benedryl, childrens medications, itch cream, sunscreen, bug spray etc.  Gather all of these items and keep them in a big basket in a common area that way in case of a loss of power you don’t have to search the house for the items.

24.) Buy an antenna for the TV to get local news and updates.

25.) Find an old corded phone to plug into the wall.

26.) Buy a few back up lightning cell phone chargers and make sure they’re ready to go.

27.) Place a flashlight in smart places.  In the bathroom and by the electrical box.

28.) Check batteries in any portable fans you may have and keep them handy.

29.) Wet wash clothes placed in the freezer can be used to cool a person off during a power outage in the summer.

30.) Cut limes and lemons will keep pesky bugs and gnats away and serve as bug repellent.

31.) Crayons can be used as mini candles

32.) Charge all devices prior to the storm making landfall and try to save them for emergency uses only.

33.) Create “fun” bags for children with items that they haven’t seen/played with in a while.

34.) Decks of cards can keep children very busy when trying to make castles and forts out of them.

35.) Keep a raft in the garage.  Even if you aren’t in a flood zone you never know.  And better to be safe then sorry.

36.) Stretch a garden hose out all the way in the hot sun.  The sun will heat the water inside the hose and you will have warm/hot water.

37.) Solar powered garden lights can be brought into the house at dusk to light up the home.  In the morning bring them outside to recharge again.

38.) Get cash.  Atms will likely be without power and credit/debit card machines will be down.

39.) Park cars far away from any tall trees.

40.) A piece of string in a can of crisco will make a candle.

41.) Glow sticks can be used to light hallways and rooms and keep children calm and entertained in the event of a power outage.

42.) Keep insurance information handy in case you need to report a claim right away.

There are many more ideas and hacks to prepare for a hurricane and power outages.  If you can think of any that I haven’t mentioned please comment below and I’ll add them to the list!

The main tip is not to panic.  Be smart and prepared and stay safe.

XO,
Danielle

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home sweet home.

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I need to confess I have been keeping a HUGE secret for the past few months.  I know, I know, you’re probably thinking, we already know you’re pregnant.  That’s quite obvious by now.  But this has been an even BIGGER secret.  And I feel like I have been holding it in for so long that I can practically burst.

WE ARE MOVING HOME!

Ah I said it!   That feels so good.

We are moving home.

Home home.

Not West coast Florida home.  Back to where we come from home.  Back to where we grew up.  Where all our memories are.  Where all our family is.  Home.

If I’m being honest the whole idea to move back came out of left field.  If you don’t know, we literally JUST bought a house this past summer.  We really didn’t have any intentions on leaving Birmingham just yet.  We bought a house in a great school zone and while we knew Birmingham wasn’t our forever, we thought we would spend about 3-5 more years here.

But then Mike got a call.  And a job offer soon after.  And the job is back home.  At first I actually resisted.  I can’t lie.  When he said he would like to go interview I said I wasn’t ready to leave.  What was the point.  We are happy here.  But we wanted to hear them out.  And they said all the right things.  So a decision was made.  And Mike left a company that he spent an entire DECADE working for.  And then he moved back home.

Yep, you read that right.  He moved home without us.  Ha!  I must have been insane to think that was a good idea, but it really made sense at the time.  He would be put up in a corporate apartment and I would stay here with the kids and finish out the school year.  Let me tell you.  It has been a long few months.  But we did it.  And in the next few weeks the kids and I will be packing up our things and joining him down there.  Back home.

On one hand it is so bittersweet to leave Birmingham.  We made really great friends here.  We love the community and our house and the schools.  We have a great thing going here, I can’t deny it.  But on the other hand I want to scream at the top of my lungs:

“I’M GOING HOME!!!”

Home to my mom.  Home to the ocean.  To where I am most familiar.  To be back near all our family.  Home to Sunday dinners and bbqs and never spending another holiday alone.  Home to no one missing out on our kids birthday parties and dance recitals.  Home.   And it feels so good to say that.

The next few months are going to be quite interesting.  We haven’t sold the house yet, so we will be temporarily be living at Grandma + Grandpa’s house.  We have to find a new neighborhood, a new house, new schools, all of it.  And I’m 27 weeks pregnant on top of everything, so to say it will be a busy summer is an understatement.  But it will be good.  So good.  Because we will be home.

So that’s what we have been up to.  Keeping busy over here that’s for sure.  Never a dull moment.  But we all know dull really isn’t my thing.

Hope you’re having a great week!!

XO,

Danielle

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Valentine’s Weekend Recap XO

So, if you’ve been following for a while you may remember that Juliana and I have a Valentine’s Day Tea Party tradition.  You can check out some of the older posts here, here and here.  I started this tradition a few years back when Juliana was 2 years old.  I love the idea of having a special tradition for us to look forward to.  In the past we invited our friends and their moms to a brunch and ate yummy powdered donuts and mini sandwiches.  We have so much fun planning the party and picking decorations.  I love to see the little girls dressed up acting fancy with their pretty pink drinks.

This year however Juliana wanted nothing to do with a party.  Every time I brought it up she shot the idea down.  Didn’t want to talk about the invite list, didn’t want to pick decorations.  Didn’t want to plan a menu.  Nothing.  I couldn’t figure out why the change in heart, but I have since given up on figuring out why she makes the decisions she does and I decided I needed to get over it.  I knew eventually we wouldn’t be throwing tea parties in the family room.  And that when she is 13 there’s a better chance of us having tea at the Ritz than inviting all the girls in her homeroom over for mini muffins, but I thought I had more time.

I’m not going to lie, I was a bit crushed.  This tradition isn’t supposed to be stressful, it’s supposed to be a tradition of something we do together to celebrate Valentine’s Day.  Whatever it is we decide to do.  So I started to plan a weekend full of other activities that I knew she would love.  Then my girlfriend, who knew I was bummed, suggested that we take our girls out to a fancy Sunday Brunch to celebrate.  Perfect!  I added it to the agenda.  We would have a whole weekend full of fun and end it with a big girl brunch.  I was starting to get pretty excited.

On Friday night after dinner I whispered to Juliana that I had a surprise for her after Joey went to bed.  She quick ran upstairs to “pretend” to go to sleep and after Joey was sleeping she crawled past his door and met me in the spa, I mean my master bathroom.  I surprised her with a special girls only spa night and she was thrilled!  I gave her my bathrobe to put on and handed her a special pink drink.  Let me tell you, nothing says fancy like lemonade with a splash of cherry juice in a stemless wine glass.  We sat on the floor and I painted her little nails and toes.  She picked blue for her toes and I tried not to make a face since this was her day afterall, but blue!?  I’m lucky it peels off quick.  After that I sat her on the counter to apply her face mask.  Mom tip:  Squirt a little face mask onto a plate (smashed avocado or banana work great too) and let your kids “paint” it onto their faces.  It takes a good 20 minutes of pure concentration.  You’re welcome.  While she was busy with that I got to work on setting up the rest of the “spa”.  A warm bath full of bubbles, lit candles and Pandora set to Spa Suite.  She hopped in the bath and put the cucumbers over her eyes.  She had so much fun relaxing and acting like a big girl.  I secretly think that the staying up late was her favorite part and that’s ok.  After she dried off I surprised her with a new nightgown and took her upstairs to bed.  She must have been rather relaxed because she was sound asleep in about 5 minutes.

The next morning we had plans to meet our good friends Savannah and Charlee for a movie and Chick Fil A playdate.  We were super excited because we don’t get to see them very much any more.  Their mom and I bought houses at the exact opposite ends of town and it’s just not as easy to make plans as it was when we lived 5 minutes away.  The girls were SO excited to see each other and I love how they get back to talking like they just saw each other yesterday.  I packed the kids a special movie snack to eat while we watched Trolls.  Again.  If you follow me on IG you know how I feel about the overpriced movie theater concession stand.  And the movie snacks have got nothing on my homemade snack tray anyways.  Right?  We had so much fun with them and can’t wait to see them again.

On Sunday morning when Juliana woke up I told her that our babysitter was coming to spend some time with Joey while I took her out for a special brunch.  She raced upstairs to pick out a dress and I heard her telling Joey that she was off to see the doctor, ha!  I blow dried her hair and she applied a tiny bit of make up.  It was a special day after all.  Christina and I took the girls to the Cheesecake Factory for brunch and the girls had the BEST time.  They got to pick anything they wanted off of the menu and we spoiled them with shirley temples and ice cream sundaes.  It was so sweet sitting on the other side of the booth watching them tell secrets and giggle.  I think they had a blast acting like big girls.

By the time we got home from brunch I was officially pooped and over Valentine’s Day before it even started.  Our weekend of jam packed activities was a total success.  We missed having Daddy around and were sad that he was away for work (did you wonder why I didn’t mention him this whole time, haha!) but such is life.  He sent us beautiful flowers so we wouldn’t feel too bummed and next year we will all get to celebrate Valentine’s Day together 🙂

I hope you had a great weekend and Valentines Day with your loved ones, I know we did.

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XO, Danielle

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i wonder how they celebrate birthdays in heaven.

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Her big brown eyes turned to look at me, “can you play it mama”.  Big pools of innocence staring up at me; she has no idea what she is asking.  How playing it will release the floodgates.  How listening to the words will reopen every wound.  How the song will take me to a place that I’ve been hiding from for months.  

// There was a time when I was alone, nowhere to go and no place to call home. 

My only friend was the man in the moon, and even sometimes he would go away too.

Neverland is home to lost boys like me, and lost boys like me are free//

Today is your birthday.  I wonder how you celebrate a birthday in heaven.  Do you get to eat endless bowls of your favorite cereal?  Stand outside and wait for the ice cream truck and get a dozen of your favorite treats?  Chinese?  Pizza?  I remember when you complained that the radiation killed all your taste buds and everything tasted like meatloaf.  I hope it doesn’t like that anymore.  

I wonder if there will be a cake.  Candles.  Who will sing to you?  So many times I wanted to sing to you on your birthday.  So many times I couldn’t.  Where were you?  Didn’t you want to hear us sing to you?  I guess it doesn’t matter now.  It’s strange missing you on your birthday, when I have missed so many.  But I missed you then and I miss you now.  Oh I wish things had been different.

I used to get jealous you know.  Other friends with their dads.  They would come to watch them cheer and dance.  I could always find them sitting somewhere on the sideline.  You were never there.  Sure you showed up when it was important.  Graduations.  My wedding.  I guess that was enough.  I learned to take what I could get.  And I was grateful.  So grateful.  Don’t misunderstand me.  I just wanted more.  I deserved more.  

I’m not jealous of anyone anymore.  Everyone has a story to tell.  A dark part of their heart.  A part they don’t share.  A part they hide from.  Secrets buried.  Memories so fragmented from years of trying to forget.  And then jagged edges glued together from years they tried to piece those fragments back together.  In hopes of some small memory.  Some small hope that it wasn’t all a dream and the foggy and cloudy memories did exist.  That it was real.  And they go back and forth between trying desperately to forget and painfully trying to remember.  I know that I’m not alone.  So I’m no longer jealous.  Everyone has a story.  You are mine.  And I forgive you.  I always have.  

It is your birthday after all.  I wonder who your talking to.  If you are boring them to tears with a discussion of the anatomy of a bird.  That used to bore me to tears.  Or maybe you’re sitting somewhere with a lukewarm cup of coffee reading Rudyard Kipling.  Or writing.  Endless scribbles in a big yellow pad.  Or on a diner napkin.  Maybe someone made you an egg cream.  Or salami and eggs.  I hope you spend today doing whatever it is you want to.  And I hope you enjoy it.  I’ll be missing you from down here like I have for many more then just the 2 years you have been gone.  You will always be my favorite of the lost boys even if I struggle to understand what made you feel so lost.  So go on, and celebrate your birthday in whatever way makes you happy.  Everyone deserves happiness. 

I will love you always

DJ

The Life

new year, old me.

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I’ve been thinking a lot about all the New Years Resolutions that everyone will be making at midnight tonight.  Get skinny, (I’m sorry, healthy), get organized, be more present, enjoy life, travel.  Blah blah.  New year, new me.  That’s what they’ll all say.  But screw that.  I like me.  I like the 2016 me.  And the me in 2015.  You know, I really liked the 2010 me because she was a skinny bitch but I’ll get over it.  

Tonight, it’s new year, old me.  

Who needs all that pressure of lists and resolutions anyways?  Face it, if you wanted to be a size 4 again, crap, I mean “healthier”, you wouldn’t need to wait until New Year’s Day to start.  You would have put down the double cheeseburger you ate last week.  But you didn’t. So stop trying to fool yourself.  If you want to make the change, you will.  When your ready.  Not because 2017 made you.

I just can’t get behind making a list of lies this year.  To ultimately set myself up for failure by week 2 day 4 when I’m stressed and catch myself taking the kids to chick fil a for a mid day nugget and babysitting session.  Don’t act like you don’t use their ice cream and play area as babysitters.  No one believes you.  

Let’s face it.  I am not going to give up my wine.  I’m still going to pretend I don’t hear the kids shouting my name in the morning so Mike has to get up.  I am still going to avoid the laundry and most household duties in general.  I’ll still think McDonald French fries should be its own food group.  The list goes on my friend.  

But you know what?  I’ll also still spend time with my kids.  Lots of time.  I’ll still create special memories with them even if we leave a mess in our trails.  I’ll always sit down every night and recap the day with my husband.  I’ll still be a mediocre chef who serves breakfast for dinner more then I would like to admit but always make sure there’s a fruit and vegetable on my kids plates.  The things that are great about me and the things maybe not so much just make me who I am.  And I’m not looking to change.  I am going into 2017 the same girl as I am when 2016 ends at midnight.  

So my resolution list isn’t happening.  And let’s face it.  It would probably get lost somewhere in the bottom of my bag or under the car seat with last weeks grocery list and the list of very important phone calls I had to make and misplaced.  And I’m ok with that.  I’m ok with being a disorganized mess.  I thrive in chaos.  I live for it.  I’ll live with the extra weight because I love food too much to get rid of it.  No sense in losing the weight to be a skinny and miserable.  I want to stay the same me.  The goofy one who takes selfies with the animals on the carousel.  The one who can laugh at herself and doesn’t let much bring her down.  Because I’m happy.  Like really, really happy.  And I don’t want to change a thing.

So you decide what you want to do at midnight.  If you choose to make a list of resolutions I’ll support you.  Go for it.  Make those big changes.  I hope you succeed.  Really, I do.  And if you don’t?  If you fail miserably?  Don’t worry, we all already love you just the way you are.  

I wish you all the happiest of New Years.  I have a feeling 2017 is going to be incredible.  

XO, Danielle

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